When was the last time you called someone a lifelong friend, but secretly engaged with the adversary of that friend, resulting in the destruction of the friendship? When did you decide that it is not important to understand the value of education, and the common sense application thereof? Why do you feel it necessary, and insist that others are responsible for your basic needs; those being food, clothing and shelter?
It is not sensible that an enduring society should have at its very foundation, one uniting element is it? (A common language would be a great start)